After cremation, deciding what to do with ashes can feel like a big decision. Some families choose to keep ashes at home, while others consider scattering ashes in a meaningful place. There’s no single right answer – what matters most is choosing something that feels meaningful to you and your family.
Whether you’re planning ahead or already have your loved one’s ashes, understanding your options can make the decision feel a little easier.
There are many thoughtful and personal ways to honour someone after cremation. Here are some of the most common options families consider.
Keeping ashes at home is a comforting choice for many families. A memorial space can be as simple or personal as you wish. Some families find comfort in having their loved one nearby, while others keep the ashes at home for a period of time before making a longer-term decision.
You might choose to:
We have a range of beautiful urns – ask your Simplicity funeral director to take you through the options.
Sometimes families decide to divide ashes so several people can keep a personal memorial.
This might involve:
This option allows each person to remember their loved one in a way that feels right for them.
Another option is to place ashes in a dedicated memorial park or garden. This gives family and friends a peaceful place to visit and reflect.
Common memorial options include:
A permanent memorial can provide a lasting place for remembrance, anniversaries, and quiet moments of reflection.
For many families, scattering ashes feels like a natural and symbolic way to say goodbye.
Ashes are often scattered somewhere that held special meaning for the person who died, such as:
Before scattering ashes, it’s important to consider a few practical things.
If scattering ashes on private land:
- You’ll need permission from the landowner (unless you own the land).
If scattering ashes in public places or national parks:
- You may need approval from the local council or governing authority.
For scattering ashes at sea:
- This is usually permitted, but regulations can vary depending on location.
Some families choose to hold a small ceremony when scattering ashes, allowing loved ones to share memories, music, or readings.
Another common question when considering what to do with ashes is how to transport them safely.
If you plan to travel or move ashes, here are a few helpful things to know:
Airlines: Most airlines allow ashes to be carried on flights, but policies can vary.
Documentation: Some airlines may request a copy of the cremation certificate.
Carry-on luggage: Ashes are usually carried in hand luggage rather than checked bags.
Postal services: Some postal providers allow ashes to be mailed, but packaging and documentation requirements apply.
If you’re unsure, speak to your Simplicity funeral director – they’ll be able to point you in the right direction.
Sometimes. Some postal services allow ashes to be sent, but specific packaging and documentation are usually required. It’s best to check with the provider before arranging postage.
Ashes can be scattered in many places, including:
Always check local rules or council requirements before scattering ashes in public areas.
Not always. If you’re scattering ashes on private land, you’ll need permission from the owner. If you plan to scatter ashes in a public place, local council approval may sometimes be required.
Yes. Scattering ashes at sea is common in Australia. Many families choose a beach or offshore location that was meaningful to their loved one. Local council guidelines may apply depending on the location.
Most domestic and international airlines allow ashes to travel on flights. However, each airline has its own requirements, so it’s best to check their policy before travelling.
Deciding what to do with ashes is a personal choice, and there’s no need to rush. When the time feels right, our team can gently guide you through your options – from memorials to scattering ashes in a meaningful place.
If you’d like support or have questions, we’re here to help whenever you’re ready.
