It’s different for every family. Some choose to read letters, sing songs, tell jokes or have a general chat. You can discuss any ideas or concerns you have with your funeral director.
Viewings
Take a private moment to say goodbye before the funeral.
One more moment together
A viewing gives close family and friends a chance to say goodbye in private.
What is a viewing?
A viewing typically takes place before a funeral service in a private space. Your loved one will be present, and a small number of family members or close friends may be invited to gather and spend a few final moments together.
You can choose to have the coffin or casket open or closed – this can vary based on your wishes or religious customs. It’s also common for people to bring mementos, such as photographs or items of special significance, to place in the coffin or casket.
During the viewing, you might wish to talk to your loved one or with those present, reflecting on your favourite memories together and what you loved most about them. It can feel strange at first, but families often say how powerful it is to have a final conversation with their loved one before the service. It may bring a sense of closure and acceptance that helps the grieving process.
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Viewings are completely optional. In some cultures, viewing the body is an important part of the funeral ritual. For others, it can bring a sense of closure and acceptance – which helps with the grieving process. But for others, it can be too painful to see their loved one in that state. We’ll discuss it as an option and be guided by you.
Yes, many families include children. They often cope better than expected when gently prepared. In the lead-up to the viewing, we can help them understand what to expect and suggest ways to be involved, such as writing a letter or drawing a picture.
Yes, a viewing can take place whether you’ve chosen a burial or cremation.
Often, yes. Our experienced mortuary team will prepare your loved one with great care and sensitivity. We’ll talk through what’s possible and support your wishes.
We aim to create a calm and peaceful environment – soft lighting, gentle music (if you wish) and seating to settle into. Your loved one will be present, but it’s up to you if their coffin or casket is open or closed.
Whatever goodbye looks like for you
Viewings are just one aspect of the funeral. We’ll guide you in crafting a farewell that feels right.
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