Whether it’s a cup of tea or a beer at the pub, coming together after the service is a precious part of the farewell.
Reminisce, reflect and remember together. Formal or casual, sombre or celebratory – a funeral reception can look a little different for every family.
A funeral reception – often called a wake in Australia – is a gathering of family and friends after the funeral. When the formalities are over, it’s a chance for everyone to get together and spend time reflecting on the life of their loved one.
It’s a time for storytelling and memory swapping; where you get to see your loved one through someone else's eyes. This shared experience is a powerful part of the healing process after losing someone.
Depending on your culture or religious background, a wake can take many different shapes. For example, an Irish wake is a lively affair with music, laughter and dancing. A Buddhist wake is typically more sombre, where guests share a quiet meal after the service.
For many Australian families, a wake takes place at a local pub or club, or even a family home. It might include a toast or two, but it’s typically a casual affair.
If you’ve lost a loved one, we’re here to guide you gently through the process. Call us any time – we’re available 24/7.
Find the details of an upcoming or recent Simplicity funeral service, or ask our team for help.
We’ll walk you through all the options, but here’s what you’ll need to consider:
Venue (Simplicity reception room, local pub, park or family home)
Catering (from simple canapes to a sit-down meal)
Timing (typically right after the funeral)
If you’re unsure what’s right for your family, we’ll talk you through the options. Together, we’ll plan a funeral reception that honours your loved one and supports those going through loss.
Many of our Simplicity funeral homes have modern gathering rooms where families can spend time together right after the funeral. We partner with local caterers to serve food and drinks, and we can accommodate decorations, music and other items to make it feel special.
You can also hold the wake at a local pub, club or restaurant. Some families also choose to have it at home and cater themselves. It’s completely up to you.
We partner with local caterers to serve food and drinks at our funeral homes. However, in some cases, you may be able to bring your own food and drinks. Ask your funeral director about your options.
Yes, our team is experienced in planning all kinds of wakes – some lively and celebratory, other quiet and reflective. We’ll work with you to understand what feels right and help you carry it out as planned.
Most receptions last between two to three hours, but it’s completely up to you. For some people, the emotion of the day tires them out, while for others, the celebrations can last long into the night.
There are plenty of ways to plan a wake that feels unique to your loved one. You might host it at their favourite pub or local bowling club. You may choose to serve their favourite food or a drink they loved. You can also create a playlist with their favourite music, or a slideshow with photos from happier times.
We’re here to guide you through the loss of a loved one and celebrate their life in a way that feels right. Call us anytime, day or night.